Be sure to thank your teachers and your guidance counselors. After all, they wrote letters of rec on your behalf.
After students receive their college admissions decisions, they often forget to thank their teachers and guidance counselors. These are the people who made your dream possible. These are the people who often took time out of their free summer days to write letters of recommendation on your behalf. They’re not getting paid to write these letters of rec. They’re doing it because they care, because they want to help you pursue your dreams. How wonderful is that? If you feel like teachers and guidance counselors are simply expected to write these letters on your behalf, you should reevaluate immediately. They do it out of the kindness of their heart!
And so right after you learn of your acceptance, go out and get a card. Write a really thoughtful “thank you” note. Let your teachers and guidance counselors know what they mean to you, how they’ve influenced your life, and how they’ll always influence who you are and where you go in life. How incredible would it be for a teacher to receive a note like that? Just think about it. Teachers don’t make millions from teaching. Many do it — at least in part — to make the world a better place, to make a difference on the lives of young people. Let your teachers and your guidance counselor know that, for you, they made a major difference.
Let them know how appreciate you are. If you can, buy them a gift that’s meaningful to them. You don’t have to spend a lot of money on the gift. Get something from the heart. But that note will be most important so spend a good amount of time crafting it. Even do revision after revision if you have to (like you did with your college admissions essays). Think about that final scene in “Mr. Holland’s Opus.” Think about how touched Mr. Holland was when generations of students returned to the school to thank him for making their lives better. Be sure to thank the Mr. Hollands in your life and you should start with those who wrote your letters of recommendation. As in right now if you haven’t already done so!
Did you think your guidance counselor for writing a letter of recommendation on your behalf? We hope so. On “Friday Night Lights,” Connie Britton played a high school guidance counselor. She would have appreciated more thank yous from students, we bet.
If you’re a student who applied Early Decision or Early Action this year and if you haven’t already done so, don’t forget to thank your teachers and guidance counselor who wrote your letters of recommendation. These teachers and guidance counselors took time out of their busy lives to write letters on your behalf. It’s not fun to write letters on behalf of so many students each year — it’s quite the hassle. Teachers and guidance counselors would much rather spend their free time outside of school spending time with their families, reading, relaxing, traveling — you name it. Do you think writing letters of recommendation for their students is often at the top of this list? Likely not.
And don’t just say thank you. Write a heartfelt thank you note. It’s the very least you can do. Maybe even include a present with the card if you can. But it’s important that the sentiment is expressed. Letters of recommendation from teachers and guidance counselors are of pivotal importance in the highly selective college admissions process and, so often, student don’t realize how little things might impact this component of the application. Students who say thank you, who take the time out of their day to express gratitude for the efforts made on their behalf — let’s just say that their letters of recommendation are often better than those who don’t. Because those who don’t probably weren’t as thoughtful before the letters were written either.
So go thank your teachers who wrote your letters of recommendation. Go pop your head into your guidance counselor’s office and let him or her know how appreciate you are for their help. It’s the right thing to do!
Always thank your guidance counselor and teachers for their letters of recommendation. Connie Britton played a guidance counselor on “Friday Night Lights.” That’s the only reason she’s pictured (photo credit: Jenn Deering Davis).
Teacher letters of recommendation are very important in the highly selective college admissions process. Don’t forget to thank your guidance counselor and teachers for writing their letters of recommendation on your behalf! Too many students forget to do this. Too many students upset their teachers and guidance counselor by taking their time for granted, by not expressing gratitude for the time they put in out of their busy schedules to write letters on your behalf. It’s a big faux pas, one that our students at The Ivy Coach are taught never to make.
Do you know how easy it is for a teacher or guidance counselor to change some content in your letter of recommendation? They’re the ones who submit these letters. It’s not like you read them. They can write what they want. They’ve got all that power. So why make the foolish mistake of not demonstrating your appreciation for all that they’ve done for you? You shouldn’t only thank them for fear they’ll change your letter of recommendation for the worse. You should also thank them because they did something really nice for you. In life, when someone does something very nice for you, you should thank them and try to do something very nice for them back — or at least pay it forward like Haley Joel Osment did in “Pay It Forward.”
So say thank you! In fact, write thank you as well. Write a really nice note to your teachers and guidance counselor. Let them know how much it means to you for them to have done this on your behalf. Let them know that they’ve touched you and had an impact on your life. It’s pretty simple social psychology. Get it right! And, while you’re here, check out this newsletter on Effective Letters of Recommendation.
Let your teachers know in advance of the summer months that you would love to have letters of recommendation from them. Give them the time to write them! It only makes sense (photo credit: Luc Viatour).
Rising seniors, as you’re finishing up your junior year, it’s time to start planning for the college admissions process. One thing you can be doing right now is approaching the teachers who you hope will be writing your letters of recommendation in the fall. Now is the time. Not in the fall. Now. Why’s that? Because teachers are overwhelmed during the school year. They’re busy writing lesson plans, grading tests, and spending time with you. Many teachers prefer to write their letters of recommendation over the summer months when they don’t have much to do and aren’t under a whole lot of stress.
The summer is such an easy time for teachers to knock out their letters of recommendation. And when teachers have a lot of time to write their letters of recommendation, you can bet that these letters will inherently be stronger for it. Do you think a teacher will write a better letter in between prepping a class for a midterm and grading a pop quiz or do you think a teacher will write a better letter when they can sit back, relax, and drink an iced tea? The answer is most definitely the latter. We know because we’ve seen it time and again. There is an advantage to giving your teachers plenty of time to write their letters of recommendation.
And your teachers will appreciate you for it. You showed a respect for them and their time. That’s something that, believe it or not, could even come across in your teacher letters of recommendation! So ask your teachers (and always ask nicely) if they’d write a letter of recommendation on your behalf now. Don’t wait. There’s absolutely no point in waiting if you already know which teachers you intend to ask. Give them the chance to write your letter on their time, in the comfort of their surroundings. It’s the best way to go.